4 Ways to Spice Up a Relationship Outside the Bedroom

When you have been in a relationship for some time, it can be easy to feel that you and your significant other are stuck in a bit of a rut when it comes to keeping the ‘spark’ that you once had alive.

Spicing things up in your relationship may be easy during the first few months of the ‘honeymoon period’ when you’re all over each other, but as you begin to get a little more comfortable and used to being around each other, this can start to fade. If you’re missing how you once were together, check out these top tips for putting the spark back in your relationship, outside of the bedroom. 

Video Chat

You don’t have to physically be together to get a little dirty and flirty. Thanks to technology, it’s easier than ever to be connected to your partner on a sexual level without being anywhere near your bedroom. Video sex chat from arousr.com is also something that you may be both interested in getting involved with in order to rekindle your relationship and be a little bit more adventurous, giving you the added spice and ‘spark’ that you need to liven things up a bit. 


Thanks to smartphones and instant messaging services, it’s easier than ever before to whisper sweet (or dirty) nothings to your partner without having to be there with them. Sexting is a great way to keep the spark in your relationship alive and since the conversation is private between the two of you, you can do it from wherever you are. Many couples find that sending dirty and sexy texts throughout the day means that they come home from work that evening barely able to wait to see their partner, just like how it was when you were first together.

Sending Photographs

When you are in a relationship with somebody who you trust and are completely comfortable around, sending sexy photographs of yourself to them is a great way to spice things up outside of the bedroom and get them all hot and bothered thinking about you. Apps such as Snapchat are great for sending sexy photos if you are worried about the possibility of them ending up somewhere that they shouldn’t by accident, as this app will only show a photograph for a specified amount of seconds before removing it. Remember that sending sexy photographs and nudes should be a fun activity between two consenting adults who trust one another. 

Leave Notes

Spicing up your relationship outside of the bedroom doesn’t always have to involve technology. Sometimes, going back to good old-fashioned love notes can work an absolute charm. Hiding a note for your partner in their lunch box for work, or on their laptop screen, can be a great way to surprise them with something romantic or sexy. Just make sure that you don’t put the note in a place where somebody else could see it!

If your relationship is starting to feel more and more boring and mundane, there are many things that you can do to spice it up.



  1. Unknown
    September 6, 2016 / 2:02 pm

    Video calls are great for couples when far from each other. I think it's better that voice only, but that's just me.

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    September 13, 2016 / 3:04 pm

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  3. Unknown
    October 9, 2017 / 6:43 am

    Yes it is so true

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