There’s a new craze sweeping the globe, although funnily enough it’s not a ‘new’ concept so to speak. Orgasmic Meditation has been around for years but it seems only in the more recent times of open sexual expression are we being more ‘chatty’ about such practices. You may be familiar or I may be making no sense to you whatsoever. So let’s explore Orgasmic Meditation shall we?
This 15-minute practice is designed to ‘awaken’ the female’s genitals and create a therapeutic state by stroking the clitoris in a certain manner and method. The target audience is ‘over-worked and stressed out’ females, who perhaps are not connected to their own sexuality or have never experienced that kind of deep intimacy. That being said, Oming will be (so they say) beneficial for any female. The aim of the game isn’t to create a orgasm in that moment – many females do not climax. It is more about awakening the deep sexual connection that is available in the vagina, and allowing women to relax and de-stress through clitoral stimulation. This practice is not designed for those who cannot cum and it isn’t anything to be embarrassed or ashamed about. So I’ve heard…I assure you, I’m yet to try it.
Who practices Oming? Well there are in fact teachers and trainers all over the place who hold classes for this practice. It can seem odd to have some complete stranger stimulating your vagina…I get that. I can imagine many will be like – NAH THANKS NIX I’M ALRIGHT. But, you and your partner can learn the practice and then do it together at home, which is probably a bit more comfortable for you than in a room of people watching someone else stroke your clit. So what exactly is involved?
The female lays down with a pillow under each leg and her head. There is a certain correct position the man sits in, with his leg under hers. He is fully clothed, she is only naked from the waist down. They have a 15-minute timer and he will commence the practice with massaging the legs and applying pressure. Then, the man has to explain what he sees. This is the ‘noticing’ phase. For instance, he’ll explain her vulva is pink, or her hood is set to one side…whatever he directly sees. This is to encourage a no-judgement zone. Then, the stroking begins. The female can give guidance and basically, she then just lies there and feels all the feels. At the end you give one moment to each other of a feeling you both had.
Is this practice free? Absolutely not. Rumour has it, one session can cost around £147. Oush. Is it about gratification in front of strangers? No. Is it about the female sexuality being explored in a controlled and safe environment? Yep. Whether you’re intrigued or disgusted, you cannot fault the nature of the programme or the success – it’s ever so popular now in London and across the pond too. For a live demonstration, watch the below video and feel free to leave your thoughts in the comments section of this blog!